Kidz Talk

Graco Recalls Strollers

2010-01-21T08:06:00.002-05:00

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

January 20, 2010

Release # 10-115

Firm's Recall Hotline: (800) 345-4109

CPSC Recall Hotline: (800) 638-2772

CPSC Media Contact: (301) 504-7908

Graco Recalls Strollers Due to Fingertip Amputation and Laceration Hazards

WASHINGTON, D.C. - The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, in cooperation with the firm named below, today announced a voluntary recall of the following products. Consumers should stop using recalled products immediately unless otherwise instructed.

Name of Product: Graco's Passage, Alano and Spree Strollers and Travel Systems

Units: About 1.5 million

Manufacturer: Graco Children's Products Inc., of Atlanta, Ga.

Hazard: The hinges on the stroller's canopy pose a fingertip amputation and laceration hazard to the child when the consumer is opening or closing the canopy.

Incidents/Injuries: Graco has received seven reports of children placing their fingers in the stroller's canopy hinge mechanism while the canopy was being opened or closed, resulting in five fingertip amputations and two fingertip lacerations.

Description: This recall involves Graco Passage, Alano and Spree Strollers and Travel Systems with the following model numbers and specific hinge mechanisms:

Model Numbers
6303MYC, 6303MYC3
7240DNB, 7240DNB2, 7240MKL2, 7240MKL3
7F02GLM3
6320IVY, 6320LAU
7241DDH2, 7241DHO3
7F04TAY3
6330CAP, 6330THR,6330THR3
7255CLP, 7255CLP2, 7255CRA2, 7255CRA3, 7255CSA3, 7255GPK3, 7255GRN, 7255GRN2, 7255JJB3, 7255ORC2, 7255WLO2, 7255WLO3 7F07EMA3
6F00QIN3, 6F00RRY3
7256CLO2, 7256SPM2, 7256SPM3
7F08DSW3, 7F08LAN3
6F03GLN3
7260BAN, 7260BAN2, 7260BAN3, 7260MRA2, 7260MRA3, 7260PKR, 7260PKR2
7G00DLS3, 7G00DLS4
6G10CSE3
7270BIA, 7270BIA2
7G01CRL3
7235GGA, 7235GGA2
7E01JON2, 7E01JON3
7G04KRA3
7236CDR2
7F00LPE3, 7F00RSH3
7G05GPR3, 7G06WSR3
7237HOL2, 7237HOL3
7F01FOR3
7G07ABB3, 7G07BAT3

Graco manufactured two different styles of hinge mechanisms for these stroller models. Only strollers or travel systems with a plastic, jointed hinge mechanism that has indented canopy positioning notches (see photo below) are included in this recall. The recalled strollers were manufactured between October 2004 and February 2008. The model number and manufacture date are located on the lower inside portion of the rear frame, just above the rear wheels.

Sold at: AAFES, Burlington Coat Factory, Babies "R" Us, Toys "R" Us, Kmart, Fred Meyer, Meijers, Navy Exchange, Sears, Target, Walmart and other retailers nationwide from October 2004 and December 2009 for between $80 and $90 for the strollers and between $150 and $200 for the travel systems.

Manufactured in: China

Remedy: Consumers should immediately stop using the recalled strollers and contact Graco to receive a free protective cover repair kit.

Consumer Contact: For additional information, contact Graco at (800) 345-4109 between 8 a.m. and 5 p.m. ET Monday through Friday, or visit the firm's Web site at www.gracobaby.com

To see this recall on CPSC's web site, including pictures of the recalled products, please go to:
http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml10/10115.html

Children's Art Easels Recalled by MacPherson's Due to Violation of Lead Paint Standard

2009-11-10T14:18:00.000-05:00

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
November 5, 2009
Release # 10-032

Firm's Recall Hotline: (866) 319-5335
CPSC Recall Hotline: (800) 638-2772
CPSC Media Contact: (301) 504-7908

Children's Art Easels Recalled by MacPherson's Due to Violation of Lead Paint Standard

WASHINGTON, D.C. - The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, in cooperation with the firm named below, today announced a voluntary recall of the following consumer product. Consumers should stop using recalled products immediately unless otherwise instructed.

Name of Product: Young Artist Easels

Units: About 10,000

Manufacturer: MacPherson's, of Emeryville, Calif.

Hazard: The chalkboard surface coating contains high levels of lead, violating the federal lead paint standard.

Incidents/Injuries: None reported.

Description: This recall involves a children's art easel which has a chalkboard surface on one side and a white board surface on the other side. The item number is AA13301 and the UPC number is 082435133010 which can be found on the original packaging.

Sold at: Art supply stores nationwide and online from July 2004 through June 2009 for about $75.

Manufactured in: China

Remedy: Consumer should immediately take these recalled easels away from children and contact the firm to receive a free replacement chalkboard panel.

Consumer Contact: For additional information, contact MacPherson's at (866) 319-5335 between 8 a.m. and 4:30 p.m. PT Monday through Friday, visit the firm's Web site at www.art-alternatives.com/recall or send email to recall@macphersonart.com

To see this recall on CPSC's web site, including a picture of the recalled products, please go to:
http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml10/10032.html

Adventure Playsets Recall to Repair Backyard Swing Sets Due to Fall Hazard

2009-11-10T14:14:00.000-05:00

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
November 5, 2009
Release # 10-029

Firm's Recall Hotline: (877) 840-9068
CPSC Recall Hotline: (800) 638-2772
CPSC Media Contact: (301) 504-7908
HC Media Contact: (613) 957-2983

Adventure Playsets Recall to Repair Backyard Swing Sets Due to Fall Hazard

WASHINGTON, D.C. - The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission and Health Canada, in cooperation with the firm named below, today announced a voluntary recall of the following products. Consumers should stop using recalled products immediately unless otherwise instructed.

Name of Product: Adventure Playsets Wooden Play Sets

Units: About 275,000 in the United States and 6,800 in Canada

Distributor: Adventure Playsets, of Amarillo, Texas

Hazard: The plastic coated lumber on the horizontal ladder (monkey bar/swing beam) can weaken over time due to rotting of the whitewood (spruce, pine and fir species), resulting in a fall hazard.

Incidents/Injuries: Adventure Playsets has received more than 1,400 reports of rotting ladders involving 16 injuries that resulted in nine emergency room visits. The injuries include two arm fractures, lacerations, scrapes, and bruises to children younger than 8 years old. Most of the reported injuries occurred when the swing came out of the monkey bar/ swing beam that had rotted.

Description: This recall involves wooden play sets with swings, slides and ladders. Each set has an overhead monkey bar ladder that acts as both the monkey bar and swing beam, and an end ladder coated with cranberry or green plastic. The instruction manual has the name "Adventure Playsets" and one of the following model numbers printed on the cover.

Durango 1-AP016 and 1- AP018
Yukon 1-AP052
Tacoma 1- AP017 and 1-AP051
El Dorado 1-AP016
Bellevue 1-AP048, and 1-AP012
Dakota 1- AP046
Sherwood 1-AP049
Sedona 1- AP002
Ventura 1-AP008
Madison 1- AP006 and 1-AP015
Belmont 1-AP003

Note: The Bellevue,Tacoma and Durango swing sets were previously recalled due to detaching frames and a fall hazard.

Sold at: Walmart, Toys R Us, Academy Sports, Menards, and Mill stores nationwide, and online at Walmart.com, ToyRUs.com, Willygoat.com and through the DMSI catalog from January 2004 through December 2007 for between $300 and $600.

Manufactured in: United States

Remedy: Consumers should immediately stop using the swing sets and contact Adventure Playsets to receive a replacement kit.

Consumer Contact: For more information, contact Adventure Playsets toll-free at (877) 840-9068 between 8 a.m. and 5 p.m. CT Monday through Friday, or visit the firm's Web site at www.adventureplaysets.com. Consumers can also email the firm at custservice@adventureplaysets.com

Note: Health Canada's press release can be seen at: http://cpsr-rspc.hc-sc.gc.ca/PR-RP/recall-retrait-eng.jsp?re_id=878

Note: All recalled swing sets have a horizontal ladder that acts as both a monkey bar and swing beam, and an end latter coated with cranberry or green plastic. The replacement kit includes the horizontal ladder and the vertical end truss support pieces.

To see this recall on CPSC's web site, including pictures of the recalled products, please go to:
http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml10/10029.html

Maclaren USA Recalls to Repair Strollers Following Fingertip Amputations

2009-11-10T13:52:00.003-05:00

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
November 9, 2009
Release # 10-033

Firm's Recall Hotline: (877) 688-2326
CPSC Recall Hotline: (800) 638-2772
CPSC Media Contact: (301) 504-7908

Maclaren USA Recalls to Repair Strollers Following Fingertip Amputations

WASHINGTON, D.C. - The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, in cooperation with the firm named below, today announced a voluntary recall of the following consumer product. Consumers should stop using recalled products immediately unless otherwise instructed.

Name of Product: Maclaren Strollers

Units: About one million

Distributor: Maclaren USA, Inc., of South Norwalk, Conn.

Hazard: The stroller's hinge mechanism poses a fingertip amputation and laceration hazard to the child when the consumer is unfolding/opening the stroller.

Incidents/Injuries: The firm has received 15 reports of children placing their finger in the stroller's hinge mechanism, resulting in 12 reports of fingertip amputations in the United States.

Description: This recall involves all Maclaren single and double umbrella strollers. The word "Maclaren" is printed on the stroller. The affected models included Volo, Triumph, Quest Sport, Quest Mod, Techno XT, TechnoXLR, Twin Triumph, Twin Techno and Easy Traveller.

Sold at: Babies"R"Us, Target and other juvenile product and mass merchandise retailers nationwide from 1999 through November 2009 for between $100 and $360.

Manufactured in: China

Remedy: Consumers should immediately stop using these recalled strollers and contact Maclaren USA to receive a free repair kit.

Consumer Contact: For additional information, contact Maclaren USA toll-free at (877) 688-2326 between 8 a.m. and 5 p.m. ET Monday through Friday or visit the firm's Web site at www.maclaren.us/recall

To see this recall on CPSC's web site, including pictures of the recalled product, please go to: http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml10/10033.html

My Kidz Got Style Launches New Charity, My Baby Needs Clothes

2009-11-06T02:55:00.002-05:00

My Kidz Got Style Launches It's New Charity, My Baby Needs Clothes

The Holidays are here, and as a result of the faltering economy, I have decided to expand my charity. I'm not asking for donations here. I don't have millions, but what I do have, is the ability to help a few infant and children that live in poverty. God has blessed me in many ways. One of the ways I can pay him back, is by paying my community back.

I own an infant and children online store. Three years ago I started donating gently used clothing to families within my community. I have also donated to a few community organizations with the stipulation that they could not charge these families. But I want to do more. This is where you can help.

When you make a purchase at My Kidz Got Style, http://www.mykidzgotstyle.com, and you provide me the name of a child that is truly in need, not only do you receive a free gift, but I will send the needy child a gift of clothing in your name. Even if you decide not to purchase anything, please reach out to your community and send a name. So, you see, you can help as well.

In order to qualify, the family must prove that they are currently in dire need.

Stay blessed.

Crescentia O'Neal-Seralathan, Owner

My Kidz Got Style

World Day Against Child Labor

2009-06-13T12:43:00.004-04:00

June 12 is World day Against Child Labour - a day set aside to promote awareness and action to tackle child labour. In a message for the Day, the Director-General of the International Labour Organisation, Juan Somavia, says this year's focus is on girls trapped in child labour, toiling in the fields from sunrise to sunset. ILO is also highlighting the plight of girls working unseen in domestic labour or those living and working on the streets around the world. The ILO estimates that some 100 hundred millions girls are in child labour, with 53 million in hazardous work. Most importantly , the organisation says that investing in girls' education and training is an investment in equality and social progress. It adds that a girl with education is better equipped to break the cycle of child labour and poverty. The UN childrens agency, UNICEF, which is also marking the day, has called for action to tackle the underlying poverty that leads to child labour. UNICEF stresses that improving access to quality education, particularly for girls in poor and rural areas, is a key part of an effective overall approach.

When Mothers Kill: Could this Child have been Saved?

2009-05-22T21:55:00.002-04:00

On May 13, while playing with her children at an Albuquerque, New Mexico playground, a woman made a gruesome discovery. The mother noticed a small sneaker buried in the sand. Thinking that it belonged to one of the children at the playground, she attempted to recover it, and return the sneaker to its rightful owner. Instead, she made a discovery that was unimaginable. Attached to the sneaker was the body of a three-year-old boy. For nearly one week, authorities searched desperately to identify the child -- circulating sketches throughout the neighborhood. The toddler was soon identified as Tyruss Toribio. What is so shocking about this story is that Tyruss was smothered to death by his mother, 23-year-old, Tiffany Toribio, a member of the Zia Pueblo Indian tribe.

Apparently, Tiffany had been asked to leave both her mother's and a friend's home because she was ignoring her son, and "witholding affection." With no place to go, both she and her son slept for days in the very same park his body was found. A strange twist to this story is that young Tyruss appeared to have been well cared for; and, there was no immediate evidence of abuse. So, what went wrong here? According to authorities, Tiffany smothered her baby boy while he was sleeping on a climbing gym. When asked how she could have committed such a despicable crime, Ms. Toribio stated that, "she did not want her son to be raised with no one caring about him the same way she had to grow up with no one caring about her," according to Police Chief Ray Schultz.

So, Tiffany has been branded a horrible mother, and has been judged solely responsible for her son's death. End of story, right? Wrong. It has to be explained to me how not one, but two people could have not only kicked this woman and her child to the streets, but do so after they both claim that she was not physically or emotionally attentive to her son? Why didn't anyone call the police or social services to voice their concerns? My question is, is Tiffany the only culprit here? Could this child have been saved?

Although she had been labeled a "partier," Ms. Toribio had no criminal record, or a history of either drug or alcohol abuse. This leaves me to believe that she may very well suffer from some form of mental illness that had not been diagnosed or treated. If this is in fact the case, then the death of little Tyruss, not only lies on the shoulder of his mother, but on society as a whole.

According to Women's Health USA, mental disorders are most common amongst women between the ages of 18-25, with close to 23 percent of this age group showing signs of serious psychological distress. Twice as many women have diagnosable mental illness as their male counter parts. Yet, women are less likely to receive proper treatment, or support.

My heart goes out to the Toribio family. The death of a child is never easy to grasp – especially when it is at the hands of its mother. However, I can’t help but feel that the support net for Tiffany failed as well. First, if Tiffany’s non-responsive behavior towards her child was so severe that she was thrown out of not one, but two homes, a call to HHS and the police should have been placed. Ms. Toribio was in apparent need of psychological assistance. Second, what concerned individual would kick a child and his non-attentive mother out into the streets? Did they not fear for the child’s safety?

I just don’t get it.

Children and Conflict in a Changing World

2009-05-21T19:36:00.004-04:00

To mark the 10th anniversary of the landmark United Nations report by Graça Machel, Impact of Armed Conflict on Children, the Special Representative of the Secretary-General for Children and Armed Conflict and UNICEF have co-convened a strategic review of the current situation faced by children in conflict situations.

Recalls

2009-04-04T22:11:00.003-04:00

NEWS from CPSC
U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission
Office of Information and Public Affairs
Washington, DC 20207

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
April 2, 2009
Release #09-177

Firm's Recall Hotline: (800) 233-5921
CPSC Recall Hotline: (800) 638-2772
CPSC Media Contact: (301) 504-7908
Firm's Media Contact: (212) 299-3962

Evenflo Expands Recall of Majestic(tm) High Chairs Due to Fall and Choking
Hazards

WASHINGTON, D.C. - The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, in cooperation
with the firm named below, today announced a voluntary recall of the following
consumer product. Consumers should stop using recalled products immediately
unless otherwise instructed.

Name of Product: Evenflo Majestic(tm) High Chairs

Units: About 90,000 (95,000 were recalled in December 2008)

Manufacturer: Evenflo Company Inc., of Miamisburg, Ohio

Hazard: Plastic caps and metal screws on both sides of the high chair can
loosen and fall out, allowing the seatback to suddenly fall back or detach from
the high chair. Children can fall backwards or fall out of the high chair and
suffer bumps and bruises to the head, broken bones, abrasions, cuts and
bruises. Detached hardware also poses a choking hazard to children.

Incidents/Injuries: For the models added by this expanded recall, Evenflo has
received 16 reports of seatbacks reclining, falling back and/or detaching
unexpectedly, resulting in five reports of bumps and bruises to the head and
five reports of other injuries including bruises and abrasions. For the models
added by this expanded recall, Evenflo has received 145 reports of plastic caps
and screws falling out of the high chairs, including one incident in which a
cap and/or screws were found in a child's hand or mouth but were removed before
choking occurred.

Description: The expanded recall involves Evenflo Majestic(tm) high chairs,
model numbers: 3001395, 3001395A, 3001604, 3001700, 3001713, 3001713A,
3001730A, 3001732, 3001733, 3001742, 3001742A, 3001756, 3001821A, 3001840A,
3001845, 30011848, 3001852, 3001932, 3002719 and 3003845 manufactured between
January 23, 2007 and December 31, 2008. The model number and date of
manufacture are located on a white label/sticker on the seatback. "Evenflo" is
printed on the label and on the front of the tray. Models showing a year of
manufacture of 2009 in red ink are not included in the recall.

Sold at: Juvenile product and mass merchandise stores nationwide, including
Toys"R"Us, Babies"R"Us, Walmart.com, and Burlington Coat Factory from January
2007 through March 2009 for between $80 and $110.

Manufactured in: China

Remedy: Consumers should immediately stop using the recalled high chairs and
contact Evenflo to receive a free repair kit.

Consumer Contact: For additional information, contact Evenflo at (800) 233-5921
between 8 a.m. and 5 p.m. ET Monday through Friday, or visit the firm's Web
site at www.evenflo.com

To see this recall on CPSC's web site, including pictures of the recall
product, please go to: http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml09/09177.html

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2. Evenflo Recalls Envision(tm) High Chairs Due to Fall and Choking Hazards

NEWS from CPSC
U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission
Office of Information and Public Affairs
Washington, DC 20207

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
April 2, 2009
Release #09-178

Firm's Recall Hotline: (800) 233-5921
CPSC Recall Hotline: (800) 638-2772
CPSC Media Contact: (301) 504-7908
Firm's Media Contact: (212) 299-3962

Evenflo Recalls Envision(tm) High Chairs Due to Fall and Choking Hazards

WASHINGTON, D.C. - The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, in cooperation
with the firm named below, today announced a voluntary recall of the following
consumer product. Consumers should stop using recalled products immediately
unless otherwise instructed.

Name of Product: Evenflo Envision(tm) High Chairs

Units: About 643,000

Manufacturer: Evenflo Company Inc., of Miamisburg, Ohio

Hazard: Recline fasteners and metal screws on both sides of the high chair can
loosen and fall out, allowing the seatback to detach or recline unexpectedly.
Children can fall backwards or fall out of the high chair and suffer bumps and
bruises to the head, abrasions, cuts and bruises. Detached hardware also poses
a choking hazard to children.

Incidents/Injuries: Evenflo has received 320 reports of seatbacks detaching or
reclining unexpectedly, resulting in 19 reports of bumps and bruises to the
head and 35 reports of other injuries including abrasions, pinches and bruises.
Evenflo has also received 13 reports of recline fasteners and screws falling
out of the high chair, resulting in one incident in which a fastener and/or
screws were found in a child's hand or mouth but were removed before choking
occurred.

Description: The recall involves all Evenflo Envision(tm) high chairs,
including model numbers: 2891321, 2891321A, 2891333, 2891351, 2891351A,
2891365, 2891375, 2891403, 2891403A, 2891466, 2891466A, 2891478, 2891536,
2891536A, 2891573, 2891586, 2892351 and 2892351A. The model number can be found
on a white label on the seatback. "Evenflo" and "Envision" are printed on the
front of the tray.

Sold at: Juvenile product and mass merchandise stores nationwide, including
Toys"R"Us, Babies"R"Us, K-Mart and Burlington Coat Factory from December 2002
through April 2006 for between $80 and $110.

Manufactured in: China

Remedy: Consumers should immediately stop using the recalled high chairs and
contact Evenflo to receive a free repair kit.

Consumer Contact: For additional information, contact Evenflo at (800) 233-5921
between 8 a.m. and 5 p.m. ET Monday through Friday, or visit the firm's Web
site at www.evenflo.com

To see this recall on CPSC's web site, including pictures of the recall
product, please go to: http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml09/09178.html

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3. SunKids Convertible Cribs Recalled by Suntech Enterprises Due to Entrapment
and Suffocation Hazards

NEWS from CPSC
U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission
Office of Information and Public Affairs
Washington, DC 20207

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
April 2, 2009
Release #09-181

Firm's Recall Hotline: (888) 268-8139
CPSC Recall Hotline: (800) 638-2772
CPSC Media Contact: (301) 504-7908

SunKids Convertible Cribs Recalled by Suntech Enterprises Due to Entrapment and
Suffocation Hazards

WASHINGTON, D.C. - The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, in cooperation
with the firm named below, today announced a voluntary recall of the following
consumer product. Consumers should stop using recalled products immediately
unless otherwise instructed.

Name of Product: SunKids Convertible Cribs

Units: About 1,900

Importer: Suntech Enterprises Inc., of City of Commerce, Calif.

Hazard: The sides of the crib are made of mesh that expands, creating a gap
between the side and the crib's mattress if it's not zipped into place, or a
gap between the side and an added mattress. A young child can slip into this
gap and become entrapped or suffocate. Also, the crib's drop side can fail to
fully latch posing a fall hazard to young children.

Incidents/Injuries: None reported with this crib. However, CPSC is aware of the
death of a 5-month-old child in August 2008 involving another company's nearly
identical crib that was recalled. The child became entrapped between the
mattress and the mesh side and suffocated.

Description: The recall involves the SunKids convertible
crib/playpen/bassinet/bed with model number PY256. "SunKids" is embroidered on
the bottom left of the crib's drop side. The convertible cribs have a drop side
rail, stationary side rail, canopy assembly, and bassinet. The sides of the
convertible crib are fabric and mesh. The mattress support, bassinet, canopy,
and bed skirt are covered in fabric. The fabric and the mesh were sold in navy
blue, light blue, pink, beige, white, beige checker, and pink heart.

Sold at: Small juvenile product retailers in N.Y., N. J., and Calif. from
January 2007 through October 2008 for about $100.

Manufactured in: China

Remedy: Consumers should immediately stop using the recalled convertible cribs
and return them to the store where purchased for a full refund.

Consumer Contact: For additional information, contact Suntech Enterprises
toll-free at (888) 268-8139 between 9 a.m. and 5 p.m. PT Monday through Friday.

To see this recall on CPSC's web site, including pictures of the recall
product, please go to: http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml09/09181.html

At What Point Do We Think About the Children

2009-01-07T19:39:00.004-05:00

As most of you, I have been following the devastating recent events in the Middle East. I am totally disgusted by both sides. I am most disgusted about the number of children who have lost their lives...the innocent, the babies. At what point does the world say enough, stop it. I don't see how anyone can condone the killing of innocent women and children. It is despicable.

To Israel, you move people from their homes, and place them in make shift slums; unable to travel freely, and are left to live like animals -- a plight that you should know all too well. Shame on you. To Hamas, you are cowards to hide behind the coattails of your women and children while they are being slaughtered like cattle. Shame on you as well.

You both hide behind the name of God; yet you do the work of evil. When you start using the innocent as pawns to obtain your victories, then I say you both should burn in hell, and may God have mercy on your souls.

Happy Holidays Everyone

2008-12-22T08:59:00.009-05:00

In the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ, I want to wish everyone a safe and blessed holiday, and a very happy new year.

In Memory Of Caylee Anthony

2008-12-20T17:49:00.011-05:00

As I am sure most of you already know, the body of the little girl found a few days ago has been identified as that of Caylee Anthony. I am saddened beyond belief -- so much so, that I can't even find words. So, here is a video in memory of young Caylee. May God have mercy on the soul that did this to this poor little angel.

A Heartbreaking Story: Eight Year Old Kills Father and Father's Friend

2008-11-12T12:52:00.008-05:00

This story is sad beyond belief. An 8 year old from St John's, Arizona, has been charged with the shooting death of his father, and his father's coworker, who rented a room in the house. Although other news reports have done so, I will not use the family's name. What is truly horrifying about this incident, is that this was apparently no accident: the third grader allegedly confessed to police that he planned the murders. The victims were shot execution style. The St John's police department is pressing to charge the child with first degree murder, as an adult.

I must say that I have to question the circumstances surrounding the confession. There was no adult, or attorney present when the child was questioned. The fact that the police department had this child in custody, questioning him without a parent or legal guardian, which by the way is illegal, just does not sit right with me. The child more than likely was in shock, and I have to question the tactics used by the police department to get the child to confess while under duress. I seriously doubt that an 8 year old can fully understand the intensity of this type of situation.

From all accounts this boy and his father had an extremely tight bond -- a fantastic relationship. The neighbors, the school, the pastor, everyone described the boy and his father as pillars of the community. What strikes me the most in cases such as this is there are almost always comments from the community depicting the characters involved as fantastic people, who had no issues at home. Well, if his confession holds true, in order for this child to plan and execute such a heinous crime that most adults deem unspeakable, there had to be something wrong in that household. While most third graders are planning birthday parties, etc., this child was planning to kill his parent. Something was definitely wrong. Although there have never been any complaints or signs of child abuse, the police department is seeking to make this a determining factor.

As I think about this story more and more, something just does not seem to fit in this case. The child was an excellent student, and had never been in trouble prior to the shootings. Nor does it appear that the child had any psychological issues. From all accounts, he was a normal healthy 8 year old. It could be possible that the coworker was the abuser. It could also be possible that the coworker murdered the father, and the child responded in self defense. It is also possible that someone was invading the home, and the child was again, acting in self defense. According to the child's defense attorney, the police department has no physical evidence to link the child to his father's murder. There are so many different scenarios that could fit this tragedy. We'll just have to await the outcome.

One issue that was brought to the forefront was that the father, an avid hunter, actually taught his son how to use guns. This raises the question as to whether or not it is appropriate for someone so young to be able to use something so deadly. On the day that his father was buried, the 8 year old was in a court room, in handcuffs and shackles. There lies the tragedy.

Viewpoints are welcome.

Oh, Dear: Another School District Gone Mad

2008-11-02T12:14:00.010-05:00

Okay, so Halloween is supposed to be a time for kids to dress-up and have fun, right? Well, not in Paramus, NJ. Alex Woinski , a 13 year old student at West Brook Middle School, was sent home from school because his costume was deemed disruptive and defensive. What did he wear, you might ask? Alex was dressed as Jesus Christ. That's right, the sent Jesus home. Alex wasn't preaching, he just wore the costume. It was a rather well designed costume at that.

According to reports, the principal of West Brook Middle School, Joan Kelly Broe, said that the boy was sent home because the costume was disruptive to other students. "Children were asking, where is the boy who is Jesus Christ?" principal Broe told WCBS-TV. "It was disrupting the education process." Other students were ordered to alter their costumes if they were deemed inappropriate, but no one else was sent home. Now, I am a firm believer in the separation of church and state, but this is ridiculous.

Is this principal saying that students just stopped working, and were running around in packs in search of Jesus? Come on! I mean, how bad could it have been? Was his costume more offensive than those that had to be altered? Interestingly enough, if you go to Ms. Broe's West Brook page, she greets you with this quote: "Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire." --William Butler Yeats. Seems like the fire was put out on this one. Hope Ms. Broe dusted off her witch's costume after putting a damper on something that is supposed to be fun.

I really am curious about this one, folks. Do you think Alex should have been sent home because of his Halloween costume? Just drop us a note.

Halloween Safety

2008-10-30T11:34:00.004-04:00

The spookiest night of the year is around the corner. Kids everywhere are choosing their favorite costume and looking forward to their favorite treats. As parents and caregivers prepare for this celebration, we at My Kidz Got Style would like to provide a few safety tips to keep in mind, so that no child is haunted by Halloween-related injuries. Hidden dangers associated with costumes, treats, and decorations can be easily prevented.

Please follow these safety tips to ensure this year's holiday is a safe one:

When purchasing costumes, masks, beards and wigs, look for flame-resistantfabrics such as nylon or polyester, or look for the label "Flame Resistant."Flame-resistant fabrics will resist burning and should extinguish quickly. Tominimize the risk of contact with candles and other fire sources, avoidcostumes made with flimsy materials and outfits with big, baggy sleeves orbillowing skirts.

Purchase or make costumes that are light, bright and clearly visible to motorists.

For greater visibility during dusk and darkness, decorate or trim costumes withreflective tape that will glow in the beam of a car's headlights. Bags or sacksalso should be light-colored or decorated with reflective tape. Reflective tape is usually available in hardware, bicycle and sporting goods stores.

Children should carry flashlights to see and be seen.

Children should wear well-fitting, sturdy shoes. Oversized high heels are not agood idea.

Tie hats and scarves securely to prevent them from slipping over children's eyes and obstructing vision.

If your child wears a mask, make sure it fits securely, provides adequate ventilation, and has eye holes large enough to allow full vision.

Swords, knives and similar costume accessories should be made of soft, flexible materials.

Supervise pumpkin carvings to avoid lacerations.

Warn children not to eat any treats until an adult has examined them carefully for evidence of tampering.

Carefully examine any toys or novelty items received by trick-or-treaters underthree years of age. Do not allow young children to have any items that are small enough to present a choking hazard or that have small parts or componentsthat could separate during use and present a choking hazard.

Keep candles and Jack O' Lanterns away from landings and doorsteps where costumes could brush against the flame.

Indoors, keep candles and Jack O' Lanterns away from curtains, decorations andother combustibles that could catch fire.

Do not leave burning candles unattended.

Remove obstacles from lawns, steps and porches when expecting trick-or-treaters.

Indoors or outside, use only lights that have been tested for safety by arecognized testing laboratory, such as UL. Check each set of lights, new or old, for broken or cracked sockets, frayed or bare wires, or loose connections. Discard damaged sets.

Don't overload extension cords.

By all means, have a spooktastic Halloween

When You Think You've Heard It All

2008-09-04T14:27:00.001-04:00

This is one of those, "what were they thinking," moments. I'm sure most have seen this in the headlines. A few weeks ago, in good old Harrold, Texas, a small town located just across the Oklahoma border, the school board decided to come up with legislation which will allow teachers to pack pistols starting this school year. You heard me correctly, teachers will be bringing guns to school. Is this like something from out of the wild west or what?

It is reported that the town has only one school with 110 students (first red flag). It has not been reported, however, whether the students who attend the school are of elementary, middle, or high school age. When you really think about it, I don't think it much matters. What does matter is whether or not it is the responsibility of school districts to instill paranoia in our children? What are our children learning from this debacle?

During an earlier interview, school superintendent, David Thweatt, justified the school boards decision by stating that the town of Harrold is near a highway, and is 30 minutes from the nearest police station (second red flag)-- leaving the students and teachers vulnerable. He further states that, "When the federal government started making schools gun-free zones, that's when all of these shootings started. Why would you put it out there that a group of people can't defend themselves?(third red flag) That's like saying 'sic 'em' to a dog."(fourth, fifth, and sixth red flag) Is it me, or has the guy totally lost his mind. Somebody needs to "sic" the dog on him and those other wackos who think this is such a marvel idea.

First of all, the town needs to get some law enforcement. Even the town of Mayberry had Andy and Barney. Come on guys, this is the 21st century. Secondly, let's say the school is attacked, how is a pistol going to stack up to someone with an arsenal of Ak47's and ammunition? Let's see, maybe, after intense planning to blow away half the school, the assailant will have second thoughts because teachers carry pistols Or, maybe he'd simply die from laughter. Does the school board and superintendent really think that by allowing teachers to carry guns to school such attacks as the ones that occurred at Columbine and Virgina Tech would be prevented? Is it really a teacher's responsibility to act as a law enforcement agent?

I dunno, call me stupid, but for obvious reasons, let's just say I think this is a really bad idea. I don't know about you, but I am highly concerned about one of these guns getting into the wrong hands -- namely a child. The death rate amongst youth, due to gunfire is steadily growing. What concerns me even more is the possibility of a teacher using a gun as a means of discipline.

Now to be perfectly honest I have not yet read the logistics of this legislation. But a few questions come to mind as to how this all will be carried out. First, will the teachers actually have guns in the classroom while students are there? 2) will the teachers have to go through mandatory gun safety courses? 3) what security measures have been put in place to ensure that a student does not get access to a teachers gun? 4) will each teacher be psychologically tested?

These are just a few question that immediately came to mind. I am sure that you have many others. I would really like to get some feedback on this one. Let me know whether you agree or disagree with this school board's decision and rationale.

Child Kidnappings on the Rise in Haiti

2008-08-31T20:46:00.011-04:00

It saddens me to report that, once again, the children of Haiti are at the brunt of human rights atrocities that go beyond my comprehension. According to United Nations News Center reports, "Haitian children remain the target of kidnappings, killings, sexual violence, and child trafficking." Since January, a record number of 69 children have been kidnapped by armed gangs, and viciously abused, raped, or murdered, compared to a total of 80 for all of 2007. Many of these children were on their way to school...over half of them are young girls.

In the small town of MINUSTAH, one in three victims are children, particularly young girls. The towns of Port-au-Prince and Cap-Haitien are the most notorious for these vicious attacks. On August 19, 2008, the body of a twelve year old boy was found when his parents were unable to pay the ransom. Over the past week, three more young girls were abducted, the ages of these children are eight, seven, and three. The three year old has since been found, and is recovering in a hospital with injuries from a razor blade. In a few instances, children were still murdered even though their ransoms were paid. These depraved gangs show no prejudice, as they kidnap children from the very rich, to the poorest of families.

In an ironic twist, the kidnapping and killing of children began after a crack down on adult kidnappings. What a trade off. Hopefully, when these freaks who area committing these crimes are tried and convicted, they are imprisoned for the rest of their lives. Giving them the death penalty would be letting them off easy. For the rest of their natural lives, they should be left with the imprint of their victims faces as they were committing these heinous acts of violence.

My thoughts and prayers go out to the victims, and their families. I cannot even imagine the pain that they are now experiencing. I only hope that the healing process leaves little or no scars on these young victims.

URGENT: Simplicity Bassinets Recalled Due to Deaths

2008-08-29T09:20:00.015-04:00

The US Product Safety Commission has issued an urgent recall on the following items. For more information, please visit, http://www.mykidzgotstyle.com/servlet/the-template/recalls/Page?sfs=387bbd9b

Infants Strangled to Death in Simplicity Bassinets: CPSC Urges Consumers To
Stop Using Simplicity 3-in-1 and 4-in-1 Convertible “Close-Sleeper” Models

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

August 27, 2008
Release #08-378
CPSC Recall Hotline: (800) 638-2772
CPSC Media Contact: (301) 504-7908

Infants Strangled to Death in Simplicity Bassinets: CPSC Urges Consumers To
Stop Using Simplicity 3-in-1 and 4-in-1 Convertible “Close-Sleeper” Models

WASHINGTON, D.C. – The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) is urging
parents and caregivers to stop using convertible “close-sleeper/bedside
sleeper” bassinets manufactured by Simplicity Inc., of Reading, Pa. CPSC has
learned that on August 21, 2008, a 5-month-old girl from Shawnee, Kan. was
strangled to death when she became entrapped between the bassinet’s metal bars.
This is the second strangulation death CPSC has learned of in the co-sleeper
bassinets. On September 29, 2007, a 4-month-old girl from Noel, Mo. became
entrapped in the metal bars of the bassinet and died.

CPSC is issuing this safety alert because SFCA Inc., the company which
purchased all of Simplicity Inc.’s assets at public auction in April 2008, has
refused to cooperate with the government and recall the products. SFCA
maintains that it is not responsible for products previously manufactured by
Simplicity Inc.

The Simplicity 3-in-1 and 4-in-1 convertible bassinets contain metal bars
spaced farther apart than 2 3/8 inches, which is the maximum distance allowed
under the federal crib safety standard. The metal bars are covered by an
adjustable fabric flap which is attached by velcro. The fabric is folded down
when the bassinet is converted into a bed-side co-sleeping position. If the
velcro is not properly re-secured when the flap is adjusted, an infant can slip
through the opening and become entrapped in the metal bars and suffocate. This
warning does not cover bassinets produced in recent months that have fabric
permanently attached over the lower bar.

Due to the serious hazard these bassinets pose to babies, CPSC urges all
consumers to share this safety warning with day care centers, consignment
stores, family and friends to ensure that no child is placed to sleep in a
Simplicity convertible bassinet covered by this warning.
The Commission voted, using its new authorities in the Consumer Product Safety
Improvement Act, to release this warning upon making a finding that the health
and safety of the public require immediate notice.

To see this release on CPSC's web site, including pictures of the recalled
product, please go to: http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml08/08378.html

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Six Retailers Agree To Stop Sale and Recall Simplicity Bassinets Due To
Strangulation Hazard

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

August 28, 2008
Release #08-381
CPSC Recall Hotline: (800) 638-2772
CPSC Media Contact: (301) 504-7908

Six Retailers Agree To Stop Sale and Recall Simplicity Bassinets Due To
Strangulation Hazard

WASHINGTON, D.C. – The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) is urging
retailers across the country to protect the health and safety of babies by
stopping sale and recalling nearly 900,000 dangerous Simplicity bassinets.
Yesterday, CPSC warned parents, caregivers and consumers to immediately stop
using convertible "close-sleeper/bedside sleeper" bassinets manufactured by
Simplicity Inc., of Reading, Pa., due to a serious safety risk. Today, CPSC is
announcing that the following retailers have voluntarily agreed to recall the
product and provide a refund or store credit to consumers who return the
product to the store where purchased:

Wal-Mart Stores Inc., of Bentonville, Ark. – (800) 925-6278 or www.walmart.com
Toys "R" Us Inc., of Wayne, N.J. - (800) 869-7787 or www.toysrus.com or
http://www.babiesrus.com/
Kmart Corp., of Hoffman Estates, Ill. – (800) 659-7026 or www.kmart.com
Big Lots!, of Columbus, Ohio – (866) 244-5687 or www.biglots.com
Target of Minneapolis, Minnesota sold at www.target.com only
J.C. Penney, of Plano, Texas – (888) 333-6063 or www.jcp.com

For the complete list of recalled model numbers, please visit, http://www.mykidzgotstyle.com/servlet/the-template/recalls/Page?sfs=387bbd9b

Third Graders Plot Gruesome Murder of Teacher

2008-04-02T08:45:00.014-04:00

Where to begin...where to begin. It's like something right out of a crime novel. Earlier this week, police in Waycross, Georgia, uncovered a gruesome plot to attack and kill an elementary school teacher. The attack was masterminded by, get this, nine third graders, ranging in age from 8-10. Upon first hearing this incredible story, my initial reaction was to laugh from disbelief.

According to news reports, the alleged students brought the weapons to school, and had planned to knock their teacher unconscious with a crystal paper weight. The plot was foiled when another student, who refused to take part in the attack, reported the intentions of the other students to an administrator of the school. The students involved brought a broken steak knife, handcuffs (wonder where and how they got those), duct tape and other items to carry out their mission. The "children" even went so far as to assign tasks that included covering the windows so no one could witness the attack, and cleaning up afterwards.

Apparently, the students were upset because of the way in which the teacher had disciplined one of this miniature mob's friends. I find the most fascinating aspect of this story, not the plot itself, but the fact that everyone is ranting about how well behaved these little terrorists are, and that they didn't realize the gravity of the situation. There was even a reference about some of them thinking this was like a cartoon. Put these kids on Prozac, lock up all the televisions, and by all means, keep them away from any Bugs Bunny cartoons. Come on people, get real!

Once again, I have to ask, what on earth is wrong with the parents? Didn't the parent notice that these objects were missing from their home? If any one of these kids were my child, I would be afraid, very afraid, to go to sleep at night. The depth in which these children planned the attack was extremely intricate. Every detail had been planned methodically. Couldn't the parents tell something was wrong? This whole situation reminds me of the movie, "The Bad Seed." If you haven't seen it, rent it.

It truly sickens me to think that these kids came very close to accomplishing their goal. It also sickens me to know that these brats will be taking care of us in the future. The question now remaining is how will or should these children be disciplined? Also, I for one would like to see the parents disciplined in this case. What do you think? Drop a note to voice your opinion.

National Center For Missing and Exploited Children's Creates New Guidelines for Call Centers

2008-03-26T17:12:00.002-04:00

One of the most devastating occurrences in life is the loss of a child. It is estimated that over 800,000 children are reported missing yearly. Of this 800,000, approximately 58,000 are non-family abductions -- 115 ending in death. ransom, or the victim being kept permanently by her/his abductor.

In its constant quest to save missing and exploited children, the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children has initiated new guidelines for its call centers. To review these new guidelines, please click the link below. Don't think I need to explain how important this is.

http://www.missingkids.com/911standards

Missing Elderly Couple

2008-03-25T02:54:00.005-04:00

I know that this blog is for kidz related issues, but I just wanted to post this information. An elderly couple is missing from Crown City, Ohio. The wife has dementia, and the husband is apparently in or near the last stages of Alzheimer's. Please check out the family's blog, and spread the word.

http://www.missingfryes.blogspot.com/

Privacy Survey

2008-03-24T23:48:00.004-04:00

Okay, I had a lively discussion with a friend of mine who does not have children. We discussed whether or not it was appropriate to show your child's room to visitors. The issue came up because another friend had given a tour of her house to a mutual friend (not the one I had the discussion with); and, during the tour, she showed the individual her adult daughter's not so clean room. As a matter of fact, the condition of the room was just down right embarrassing. Her daughter was out of the country, and left the room in total disarray.

I personally believe that the friend who showed her daughter's room was wrong. To me, there is a privacy issue involved here. Most parents that I know would say this is my daughter's room, and just walk by. I really don't know anyone who would show their child's room off without the child's permission -- especially if they are over 10 years old. My friend with whom I was discussing this, on the other hand, feels that most parents would have no problem showing off their children's rooms. So, I have decided to do a survey.

I would like to know how many parents out there would show off thier children's rooms after they reach a certain age. Just drop me a note to let me know what you think. Even if you do not have children, your comments are welcome.

Eigth Grader Arrested in Hate Crime Shooting

2008-02-16T18:53:00.008-05:00

On Tuesday morning, during his first period class, a 14 year old eigth grader from Oxnard, California's, E.O. Green Junior High School, shot and rendered a fellow classmate brain dead. The young accused is being charged with committing a hate crime, and is expected to be tried as an adult. He is facing 25 years to life. Although details are still sketchy, it is alleged that the suspect shot his classmate because he was sometimes known to wear makeup. Unfortunately, and understandably, this story has been overshadowed by the dreadful shooting at Nothern Illinois University. However, from all perspectives, it is just as heartwrenching.

There are so many things wrong with this picture, I simply don't know where to begin. I guess the first question is, how can someone so young generate this much hate? Where did it come from? In my mind I have reviewed the extreme homophobia exhibited by our elected officials and the supposed stalwart pundits of God. But these are supposed to be adult issues, not those of innocent children.

Please don't get me wrong, I am in no way condoning what this young man has done. He is, I believe, old enough to know right from wrong, and should be made to face the consequences of his actions. But I have to question what role his family life, and an intolerant society played in his decision to virtually mortally wound a fellow classmate because he wore makeup. Although the victim survived, he is brain dead and living on life support. He is not expected to recover.

This is supposed to be the greatest and most tolerant country in the world. We constantly criticize those nations that have abhorent human rights policies; yet, we consistently have these types of incidents right in our own backyards. The sad thing is that the hate we generate as adults is now trickling down to our much younger citizens. What is even more sad is that we as adults won't even give this issue a second thought until it hits home.

We've got to do better America. We are losing an entire generation to violence and hate. I hear the presidential candidates talk about a myriad of issues. I for one would like for someone to address the issue of how we will save our future. I want to see parents made accountable for their children's actions. I have teenagers, and you better believe that I ask the nosey, uncomfortable questions; meet the parents of their friends; drop them off at the front door of a friend's party; have them call me with updates; and set the ground rules parents are supposed to set. I may be a pain, but at least I know that I use all of my God given powers to assure that my children are my priority, and live a healthy existance.

I would like to send out my condolences to both families. When you really think about it, they both have lost children.

This Bird Really Rocks

2008-01-07T08:59:00.001-05:00

Here's something to show that there is humor here at Kidz Talk. I found this video on Yahoo. I don't quite know how to add vidoes to my blog, so I have pasted the link. This Cockatoo really knows how to rock. All you dancin' wanna bes out there...eat your hearts out. Comments are always welcomed.

From the Mouth of Babes

2008-01-05T13:35:00.000-05:00

I came across this telephone discussion between a twelve year old boy named Logan, and his local radio station. I could write an entire article about this, but it would take away from the innocence and simplicity of this child's heart. Just click the link. You'll understand what I'm talking about. Logan can teach us all a good lesson.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zCdZwitrNoY.

President Bush Finally Makes Positive Stride in Child Health Care

2008-01-03T15:49:00.000-05:00

On, Saturday, December 29, 2007, President Bush finally took baby steps (no pun intended) towards temporarily extending the much needed State Children's Health Insurance Program. The program will provide states with enough money to cover enrolled patients through March 2009. The program is designed to benefit children and families who make too much for Medicaid; yet, not enough to obtain private insurance. The current legislation will cover approximately 6 million people -- most of them being children. Mr. Bush vetoed two earlier bills because he felt that they were too expensive (we won't discuss where he has already wasted billions of dollars that could have supported this program), and that they would place more children into government run health programs. Who cares as long as these children are getting the proper medical care?

The Democrats are pushing to include another 4 million individuals. Will they have to wait until the 2008 elections are over? What about those who are currently paying up the wazoo for inadequate private health insurance? We'll keep you posted.

The School Bus Seat Belt Debate Rages On

2007-11-27T20:05:00.001-05:00

Well, apparently, Congress is once again considering whether or not to adopt a school bus seat belt, proposal drafted by the Department of Transportation , National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA). This proposal is a result of a 2002 report on improving school bus safety. The proposed regulation will cover brand new school buses weighing 10,000 lbs. or less, and would require these buses to have "lap/shoulder" belts, and that seats be raised from 20 to 23 inches. For larger buses, that are actually responsible for carrying the bulk of our children, NHTSA recommends that each state and local jurisdiction make the choice of whether or not to install this safety gear for our children. States such as New Jersey, California, Florida, and New York -- the first to do so, have all drafted legislation requiring seat belts on all school buses. The NHTSA also proposes that seat heights be raised from 20 to 24 inches in all new school buses.

I applaude the continuing effort to place seat belts on school buses. It only makes sense, and would erase the contridiction our government imposes on highway and traffic safety. However, why is it so difficult for us to make the decision to keep our children safe while riding school buses? We have child carrier regulations, why not have regulations for the main mode of transportation for over half of our children? Why is it that we can spend millions of dollars on developing gold toilets, yet we cannot push for the development of child restraints on all school buses?

In conducting its study in 2002, NHTSA only inacted frontal collision tests. It did not, and still has not, conducted studies on side impacts and rollovers. Hopefully, with intense pressure from the public, these studies will be conducted in the near future.

What are your views. Just drop us a note, and let us know.

These Babies Desparately Need Your Help

2007-11-11T08:39:00.001-05:00

While reading a non-related article on msnbc.com, I came across another article, and was reminded of a disturbing crisis that was brought to my attention nearly ten years ago. The issue is the "restavek's" of Haiti. This, if not already, should be, a subject that is chilling to the bone for parents, as well as the international community at large. The plight of these children will bring tears to your eyes.

Restavek's (stay withs) are the poorest of children in Haiti, who have been committed to servitude by their parents. The parents are convinced that their children will get the necessary education and care that they themselves are unable to provide. Although most of us will judge and deem this unimaginable, what has to be understood is that I am talking about the poorest country in the Western Hemisphere. For these poor families, there is, unfortunately, no other alternative; and, the wish to educate these children and provide better lives for them is what is being exploited.

It is estimated that approximately 300,000 children are either left on the door, or through other arrangements, given to families to work for the assurance of obtaining education. What is actually occurring, is these children are most often abused. Most will lose total contact with their families, and never see them again. 80% of these children are female, are between the ages of 10 -14, are sexually abused, and are forced to work 10 - 14 hour days. Generally, by age 15, these children are released, and forced to live on the streets -- many opting to work as prostitutes in order to survive. If a young girl is raped and becomes pregnant, she is thrown out to fend for herself...no matter what the age.

This atrocity should no longer exist as we travel into the 21st Century. It is so easy for us to overlook these children. Afterall, they are not our responsibility, right? Well, in all good conscience, I cannot believe that to be the truth. It is our responsibility to protect all children. I look at things this way, we never know when we might need something in return, and this could be any one of our children one day. Please get involved.

To find out more on this subject, please go to: http://www.dol.gov/ILAB/media/reports/iclp/Advancing1/html/haiti.htm, http://www.haitiprojects.org/, and, http://beyondborders.net/.

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Mascoutah School Policy: What a Price to Pay for a Hug

2007-11-08T16:32:00.000-05:00

A few days ago, a 13 year old student from Mascoutah Middle School, in Mascoutah, Ill, was given two days in detention. Her crime -- giving her classmates a goodbye hug. As the children were being released for the weekend, the student gave two of her friends a goodbye hug . It appears that the Mascoutah School System came up with the bright idea to ban any display of public affection on school property...this includes something as innocent as a hug. The policy states: "Displays of affection should not occur on the school campus at any time. It is in poor taste, reflects poor judgment, and brings discredit to the school and to the persons involved." How the system has managed to turn something as innocent as a goodbye hug into something so sinister and dirty is beyond me. What is even more amazing is that if the accused student chose not to spend two Saturdays in detention, she would have been suspended. A crime befitting a hug, right? Not!!

America, what are we becoming. This is an institution of learning. What is this school district teaching its children if it is run by paranoia? So, if two second graders decide to hold hands as they are skipping along, they are embarrassing themselves, as well as the school? I don't know about you America, but I need to know how a school district could possible come up with something this stupid.

To Mr. Sam McGowen, District Superintendent, who fully agrees with this policy, it is not the children who hug their friends that show poor taste or discredits the school. It is you and all of the old cronies that came up with this sick, ridiculous policy. Shame on you.

What's a Bully

2007-10-19T05:23:00.000-04:00

I don't mean to be insensitive, but what the heck is a bully except for some lowlife you allow to take charge of you. You want to stop the rumors? Fight back, in a healthy way. Be strong and ignore the taunts. I DID.

When I was in high school, no one knew that I was painfully shy; as well as, physically, mentally, sexually, and emotionally abused. Actually, they never cared. They just thought I was "strange." As a matter of fact, when it was time for people to write about me in the yearbook during my senior year, it was publicly mentioned that no one had written anything about me, so individuals made up things so that I could be included in the yearbook. Or, let's pick the time when I got the nerve to answer a question in Chemistry, and the teacher made the insensitive remark that"Ms. XXX has a voice." It wasn't enough that I was abused at home, I had to be publicly abused and humiliated in school as well.

So, what's my point.? You will only be taken down when you allow the remarks to affect you. What do I mean by this? I mean, those who put you down are really covering their own insecurities. They have no life. If they did, they wouldn't have the time to taunt, hurt, or ruin other peoples reputations. Your control is to ignore these insults. Your purpose is to get through school, and to become the great adults you know you can be. If someone put your picture up on Facebook and calls you a whore, so what. You know you aren't. There is some truth to the saying "sticks and stones can break my bones, but words can never hurt me." Just keep saying that to yourself over and over again. Remember, bullying can only work if you show that it bothers you.

Join groups or clubs that are of interest to you. Write a column about bullying, and its effects on the individual being bullied. Sometimes putting things in writing allows people to see your point more clearly. If you're into Facebook and My Space like most of the kids are today, start generating healthy dialogue about the issue. Most of all, keep your parents informed. If you feel you cannot speak to your parents, find another adult that you feel you can trust such as another family member, or teacher. Don't attempt to handle this alone.

The fact remains that you need to build your self confidence. No one else can do this for you. Once you show that nothing the bully says or does affects you, you have gained the upper hand. I know it's tough, but it works. If being bullied has done nothing else, it has made me the strong person that I am today.

Child Abuse: It's a Growing International Problem

2007-10-09T15:03:00.000-04:00

I recently visited a site that literally brought me to tears. I worn you that this is not a post for the weak. I intend on providing as much detail about this incident as possible. Why? Because this is one of the most unimaginable crimes that has been bestowed upon a child. I don't even have the words to describe my emotions.

The story is about an 8 year old child, from Kuala Lumpur, that was abducted, tortured, brutally raped, murdered, and then stuffed in a gym bag. An autopsy revealed that not only was little Nurin Jazlin beaten, battered, and bruised from head to toe, but several items, including a cucumber had been shoved into her vaginal area. This is a dispicable crime against anyone, but for an 8 year old child to have to suffer and indure such abuse is heart wrenching, to say the least.

People, the international community must get involved in the fight to stop these cowardly, disgusting crimes against our children. Enough is enough. Why should these babies have to wait for something like this to personally affect you before you become involved? Before you go to sleep tonight, go to the link listed below to review the full story. Next, take a real good look at you own child. Hug her/him, and then get involved...this could very well be your son or daughter.

For more on the Nurin Jazlin's story, please visit: nafasg.blogspot.com/2007/10/fight-against-child-abuse-tribute-to_07.html.

2007-10-09T14:56:00.000-04:00

Wow!!! Another Major Recall

2007-09-22T16:19:00.000-04:00

Here we go again. Incredibly, after literally millions of toys were recalled by toy magnet Mattel, another million product recall has been issued this week by Simplicity Baby Cribs. These cribs are made in China as well. This recall is due to an apparent death of a child.

Has outsourcing run its course? In the race to acquire cheaper labor and supplies, are we putting our children in danger? We'd love to hear your comments.

For a full list of the recalled items, please visit my website at: http://www.mykidzgotstyle.com/. Click the recall link on the left.

Madeleine McCann

2007-09-14T15:35:00.000-04:00

For those of you who do not know the story of Madeleine McCann, she is the now 4 year old British child, who went missing May 2007, while on vacation with her parents in Portugal. Her parents are now being considered suspects in her disappearance. Although the news is now focused on whether or not her parents had anything to do with this heinous crime, my thoughts wander to a different question. Believe me when I say that my heart definitely goes out to the McCann's, but I need an explanation as to how parents could leave three small children -- all under the age of four -- in a hotel room, without any supervision whatsoever, in a strange country, with the door unlocked? They left their children, not for emergency purposes, but to have dinner with friends.

With hundreds of thousands of children missing around the world today, I find the actions on the part of the McCann's deplorable, and irresponsible. What were these "parents" thinking? We are not talking about individuals that have no social or educational skills. From what I understand, both the McCanns are doctors. Also, is anyone concerned about the safety of the two year old twins? I realize that there will be some, maybe a majority, of readers who will be taken aback by this statement; but, someone has to step outside of the box and address this issue. When are we going to start fighting for the safety of our defenseless children?

As a parent, the fact that we still have not learned to place our children as immediate priorities never ceases to amaze me. I could not for one minute imagine leaving my small children alone
at home, let alone in a strange hotel room, with the doors unlocked. What I would like to know, is whether or not the British social services is reviewing this case.

I pray everyday for the safety of Madeleine. Nothing is more heart wrenching than having a child taken from you without word or preparation. It is even more heart wrenching to have to imagine what this poor baby might be going through if she is in the hands of a deranged pedophile.

I read some of the excerpts from Kate McCann's diary, in which she states that her children were too hyper, and that she was drained. Well, Kate, welcome to the real world. The unfortunate part of all of this, is that the McCann's, at the expense of their child, have had to learn a very painful, unimaginable lesson about parental responsibility -- one that we should all pay close attention to.

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2007-08-27T08:25:00.000-04:00

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School Starts When? My First Experience as an Empty Nestor.

2007-08-19T18:55:00.000-04:00

So, you've finally just gotten used to the kids being home for the summer. Your nerves are back on track, because just two weeks ago you found the perfect summer time activities in which to get them involved. Then, you open a letter from school. It says. "Hope you had an enjoyable summer... see you in two weeks." Your mind begins to race. Thoughts start popping into your head. Dementia sets in. Two weeks, what does this letter mean two weeks? They just got out for the summer!

Is it me, or does it seem that summer vacations are getting shorter and shorter? My daughters are slightly older. One is ready to leave for her first year of college, and one will be a junior in high school. Even still the mania never changes, at least for me. It's sort of bittersweet. On the one hand you want them out of the house so that you can have one peaceful day; yes, even with teenagers. Yet, on the other hand, you begin to realize that their other life kicks in...one in which you become a shadow participant. Soon, they will be dependant upon their friends for conversation and advice. They won't have time to take a ride with you to the store, or to watch the "dumbest movie ever" on TV.

The difference for me this year, is that one daughter is beginning her new life as an adult, and the other is becoming increasingly involved in outside activities. Where has the time gone? Don't get me wrong, I understand that there comes the time when we need to let go. What I didn't realize was how quickly that time comes. I find myself saturating my eldest daughter with last minute information and advice I wasn't sure I had given. I find the need to make sure that she has remembered all the things that she had been taught by my husband and I. Even though my daughter has a great head on her shoulders, I just need to make sure for my own satisfaction and security. The point is, I will miss her terribly.

Of course my friends keep telling me that I have to let go. What they don't understand is that I have already let go. I did that when she started looking at her first college. The point is that throughout the years, I have watched my daughter grow into this beautiful young woman, and I am very proud of her; but, I miss the child with the inquisitive eyes, the contageous giggle, and the bounce that was her run.

No, to the contrary, there is nothing wrong with admitting that you will miss your child. Motherhood, for me, has been a most enjoyable experience. At the same time, however, I am also overjoyed that she will now begin her own special journey of life, and I only hope that she experiences great joys and blessings along the way. She deserves it.

Besides, I still have one more to cling too, right?:o)

Cheap, Fun Things To Do For The Summer

2007-08-14T19:00:00.000-04:00

Oh my Gawd!!! Summer's here!!! Honey, what will we do with the kids??? If you're like most parents during summer break, you've probably been going into super panic mode trying to find enough activities for your child. Here are some things that you can do to keep your little ones busy. Not only are these activities fun for your child, but they are also fun for the entire family. And, some of these ideas can be used year round. Well, here goes. As always, if you have any suggestions, you know what to do.

1) Take Them Outdoors

Summer is the perfect time to get outside. Take advantage. How about taking your family on a nature expedition or scavenger hunt? Take a walk through you neighborhood or area parks. How many trees, flowers, insects, or plants can you identify? After collecting your items, start a nature scrapbook.

Join your area Audubon Society. This is a sure fun way to get to know our friends of flight. Do you know how many species of birds are right in your own backyard?

Grab some trash bags an start a community clean-up in your neighborhood. What is a better way to teach your child to respect nature, and the earth?

Plant flowers and trees. You don't have to have a huge backyard. Even apartment buildings have some green space.

Camp out in the backyard. Bring out the tent, dust off the sleeping bags, and dig out some of those old camp songs.

2) Craft with Reusable Household Items

You've got junk. Well, that's what most of us think about things that we don't use anymore. Have empty milk jugs, egg cartons, cereal boxes, and clothing? What most of us overlook, is that some of this "junk" is an arts and crafts goldmine, and can be a recycled over and over again.

Make a puppet theater. Just use a large shipping box to build a puppet theater to show off the dolls or puppets you made for recycling those old clothes.

Build a Diorama of your favorite stories. This is always fun. Use sections of the egg cartons to build furniture.

3) Show Them Life in Action

Collect butterflies, purchase an ant farm, or build a terrarium.

Be sure to check out some of the items we have online for outside fun and camping.

See you next time.
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Should Corporal Punishment (not capital) Be Brought Back To Life?

2007-08-13T16:06:00.000-04:00

A few week ago, after having a wonderful evening of dinner and talk with friends that I hadn't seen in years, I stopped at a gas station to fill up. Now, mind you, this was two o'clock in the morning.

While paying for my gas, a group of about 15 young people, ranging in ages from 15-20, entered the gas station. The major problem with this group at the time was its rowdiness. The kids were clearly upsetting the other customers and the owners of the gas station.

I walked over to the group and asked how old they were. When I was told their ages, I asked the 15 year old girls why they were out so late, and if their parent knew where they were. I then suggested that they go home. I should explain that this encounter was in Georgetown, in Washington, DC, and was in an area primarily full of bars. It is also fair to mention that it is not uncommon for the Metropolitan Police to question young people as to why they are out past the curfew set by the city.

All was well until a visiting 17 year old from LA decided that he was a "grown man," and could do what he wanted. I was immediately angered, not only by his tone, but also by the fact that I was old enough to be his grandmother, and his response was totally out of line. Seeing that I was becoming upset, the eldest of the group, and one of the 15 year old girls, apologized for him.

Although I was very appreciative that the other members of this group took responsibility for their friend, I felt that the apology should come from him. So, I took him to the side and explained the situation with him being in Washington, and being out so late. His response, which was actually a question, was why are you out this late? I simply informed the young man that I, by my age and maturity, earned the right to be out whenever I wanted, and that he had no right to question me. I was not the one breaking curfew, nor was I the one disturbing others. I went further to point out that I was sure his parents had not raised him to be disrespectful to his elders. I won't print what he said next. I'll just leave that up to your imagination, but it was not nice.

Well, I told him he was acting like an ass, and he all of a sudden became sensitive. He was hurt that I used a curse word. I replied that he lost the right for my respect, and that since he thought he was a man, it was now time for me to treat him like one. I informed him that I was an attorney, and that he was now breaking the law, and that if he did not leave the premises at once, I would call the proper authorities to have him removed. Suffice it to say that the group gathered their friend and immediately left; but, not without the young man repeating that nice phrase he he bestowed upon me earlier.

I then started to wonder if the young man would have had that same attitude if corporal punishment were still invoked, not only for the kids, but their parents as well. Have we become a society that is totally immune to respect? I can only assume that this type of behavior comes from something lacking in the home. Yes, I know that parents cannot regulate the behavior of their children when they are not with them, but I have to question, why were these kids out that late in the first place; and, if the parents had really drilled respect for people, especially elders, into the minds of their children.

I have time and time again witnessed parents actually hearing their children make disrespectful remarks to persons much older than them, only to hear the parents respond afterwards that their children were only standing up for themselves. And, though this really should not matter, but it does in our society, I live in an extremely influential area. These were not children from "poor" families, as I know some of you may assume. So, why do we wonder what is happening in our society today? I am the parent of two teens, and I wish one of my children would even think about displaying some of the disrespect that this kids show today. And, no, I have never laid a hand on either of my children; but, they have learned from the time that they could focus, that disrespect would not be tolerated.

It may take just a whack on the butt to turn some of these people around. When will we learn that if you cannot be respectful, you cannot care about what is going on around you. And, once you stop caring, all is lost.

My Kidz Got Style

2007-08-13T16:04:00.000-04:00

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